Friday, December 21, 2012

Christmas spirit

Maybe this post is meant to be a little cheering in the wake of everything that happened last week, and indicate the completely irrepressible awesomeness of kids.

One of the things that comes along with the holiday season at the boys' school are a lot of concerts. This picture is from one Jamie did at a senior living facility nearby, where they were much appreciated. He also did a couple of concerts at school. We went to the one during the day, and they had brought the kindergarteners in to sit on the floor and listen. Since there are a lot of concerts and performances at school, one of the things they work on is sitting still and quietly and listening and the kids were doing a great job. Until they played Jingle Bells. As they got to the chorus, there was a quiet, but insistent sound of 5- and 6-year-olds singing along. The teachers laughed, but very nicely told them to just listen. It was all for naught though. They just couldn't stop themselves. They knew the words and they were singing along and having a great time of it, especially with "laughing all the way (HA HA HA!!)." By the end, even the kids in the orchestra were smiling.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

The State of Santa

Well, Christmas approaches with much anticipation in the Costello household. Connor, in his sweet way, is happily expecting Santa. Sarah did this thing where you can get Santa to send a personalized video greeting. Connor was a little anxious until Santa told him he was officially on the "nice" list, to which he responded with his signature arms-raised "YES!" exclamation. Unlike Jamie, who began pressing for the practical details of Santa, and testing the logical flaws of the whole thing when he was four, Connor has no inclination to question Santa at all.

Jamie, meanwhile, has gone back into full belief mode. As I have mentioned, last year in the lead-up to Christmas he cornered me outside, away from Connor, and asked very directly for the truth about Santa. Unlike the other times, I sensed that he really wanted to know this time, and he handled it fine then. But this year, when we were visiting the cousins in Austin, we all watched Elf. A great time was had, but after the movie, I found Jamie crying in his room alone. I asked what was wrong and was horrified to hear: "I wish you never told me about Santa!!!" Bad daddy!!! Bad daddy!!!

So after that he has basically decided to forget that I did tell him and is back in full-on Santa mode. I think playing it up for Connor helps with this as well. So, ho-ho-ho it is!!

Mr. Compliment

So Jamie and Sarah were reading a book he got from school about  Navy SEALs. He was very impressed by the rigorous training program they undertake. He marvelled at the fact that they run 200 miles over five days, and said "Mommy, you don't even run that far!" She agreed, but then they got to a picture of a SEAL, or would-be SEAL I guess, grimacing as he pulled himself up a rope obstacle. Jamie was less-impressed, "Mommy, you're tougher than that guy. You wouldn't make that face if you were doing that," he informed her.

Sarah wasn't quite sure this was true, but she didn't say anything. Given what's happened in the last week, if Jamie feels his Mommy is tougher than a Navy SEAL, he must feel pretty safe, so we'll take that.

Friday, December 14, 2012

My favorite things

A few days ago, prompted by absolutely nothing, Jamie sat down to make a list. He made three columns, headed "I like," "Things that smell bad," and "I don't like". I reproduce them here unedited, save a couple of comments:

I like
1. baseball
2. video games
3. books
4. TV
5. soccor
6. Barack Obama
7. LEGOs [he also added a "trademark" symbol]
8. P-51 Mustang
9. World War Two
10. Guinea Pigs
11. Medevil times
12. My house
13. My family
14. My friends
15. Cats
16. dirt
17. Christmas
18. My birthday
19. the cello
20. candy

Things that smell bad:
1. The compost [one of his chores is taking out the compost]
2. bannas
3. garbage [another chore]

I don't like:
1. haircuts
2. the zoo
3. Mitt Romney
4. school
5. Barbies
6. the hot
7. Massacres

Saturday, December 8, 2012

Life lessons

Just a quick snippet we overheard between the boys just now:
Jamie: Let me give you some advice, Connor. About night-time battles.
Connor: OK.
Jamie: Never carry a torch.
Connor (Look of non-comprehension)
Jamie: Because it allows archers to see you. And shoot you down.
Connor: OK.

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

The Guinea Pig Handbook

As many of you know we were lucky enough to have Annabelle the kitty for the last couple years of her life. The boys really adored her and she actually liked them too, I think, even if she found Connor to be a little too unpredictable at times. She had these very specific ways of joining the family unit. We read books on the couch in the living room every night before bed and wherever she was in the house she would come running up and sit with all of us purring and squinting, which appears to be cat for "you please me at the moment." They took her departure hard, and still remember her very clearly and fondly. We were looking at the kitties for adoption while we were at the pet store recently and Jamie had to walk away. He said it made him think of Annabelle and that made him sad.

But of course, it wasn't too long after she died that the boys were clamouring for another pet. Some months of negotiation and thought followed. Connor at one point wanted a talking bird, mainly because of the one in the Judy Blume Fudge series, which says obnoxious things in French with impeccable comedic timing. I worried that any bird we got would have lacked either the obnoxiousness, the French, or worse, the timing, and so been a disappointment.

So we settled on guinea pigs for a few reasons (good combination of small size, ease of cleaning up, pleasant temperament, willingness to snuggle and cuteness). But being academics, we wanted to study them first, so we went to the store, looked at some, watched their behavior and then bought The Guinea Pig Handbook, a comprehensive and reliable guide. Jamie really dug into the task. He went to bed reading it and sat at breakfast with it open all the next week. He became quite knowledgeable about guinea pigs. (I pictured two guinea pigs somewhere that week munching parsley and reading The Little Boy Handbook.) This meant that not only was he well-prepared for their arrival the next weekend but he was prepared to ignore misinformation. One of their friends has a pet gerbil and insisted that if you tried to hold the guinea pig it would run away, because that's what the gerbil does. Jamie maintained steadfastedly that it was otherwise and when the friend continued to insist he just walked away and said, with a very very slight touch of pity in his voice, "You don't have The Guinea Pig Handbook."

Just before we got them we settled on Roma and Kouklia for the names, after the two places we stayed this summer. Sarah suggested this and after a week of constant fluctuation on names they settled on it very quickly. So the boys do indeed love the guinea pigs. The pigs tend to try to get away when we got to pick them up (I think instinctually for them a hand coming from above reads as "hawk"), but, as The Guinea Pig Handbook suggested, are very happy to snuggle once they've been caught, and they realize we are not hawks.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Dude, cello!

So we have two cellists in the house now. Their teacher was pretty openly laughing at us, pointing out that if they kept playing we would a) need at least one new car into which fit two full size cellos and b) tens of thousands of dollars to buy said cellos. Ha ha!

But it's been lots of fun watching Jamie bring Connor along. The first time Connor brought his cello home, Jamie was very eager to help and actually did in a rather light-handed helpful way. Instead of berating Connor for doing things wrong, he prefaced everything with "Dude!":

"Dude! You have to lay the case down with this side down."

"Dude! Hold the cello here! Dude!! Here!!"

(Laughing): "Dude!!! You can't let it hit things!"

I think they've both enjoyed it more having each other involved.

There was a bit of a difficulty lately, though. Jamie has accelerated a bit and so has moved from teh beginner class which Connor joined this year, to the intermediate group. We were pleased to hear about this from his teacher, but she said that when she told Jamie he could move if he wanted, he said he would have to ask Connor. Connor was indeed very upset at the prospect, because cello happens after school and without Jamie to tell him where to go, he gets very stressed. Jamie was eventually convinced that it had to happen sooner or later, but now when the class is over he goes running to get Connor because he knows the little guy will get scared without him. Cello seems to bring out the best of Jamie's big brother instincts,